"a bad joke or a good memory"

"The only thing promised in this world is that it will, oftentimes, be something that makes living seem impossible.  And I hope, then, that a child who blessedly knows less of the world's evils decides to laugh with his friends in a place that reaches your ears.  I hope it carries you back to the fight, as it has done for me.  Joy, in this way, can be a weapon -- that which carries us forward when we have been beaten back for days, or months, or years.

And what a year 2016 was.  Oh, friends, those of you who are still with us, what a year we survived together.  We are not done burying our heroes before we are asked to bury our friends.  Our mourning is eclipsed by a greater mourning.  I know nothing that will get us through this beyond whatever small pockets of happiness we make for each other in between the rage and the eulogies and the marching and the protesting and the demanding to be seen and accounted for.  I know nothing except that this grief is a river carrying us to another new grief, and along the way, let us hold a space for a bad joke or a good memory.  Something that will allow us to hold our breath under the water for a little bit longer.  Let the children have their world.  Their miraculous, impossible world where nothing hurts long enough to stop time.  Let them have it for as long as it will hold them.  When that world falls to pieces, maybe we can use whatever is left to build a better one for ourselves."

--Hanif Abdurraqib, "Surviving On Small Joys" from They Can't Kill Us Until They Kill Us

If you're interested in a collection of essays that will simultaneously make you understand why the rise of Trump is worse than you think, why you should take Carly Rae Jepsen's infectious pop more seriously, why Allen Iverson is more important than Michael Jordan, and why Johnny Cash and Vanilla Ice have a lot in common, this is the book for you.